Evolving Marriages Blog

In a previous post, we talked about those that will have a hard time succeeding with our program. So, who should join? Is it right for you? Can it help you turn your marriage around? It may work for you if: 1. You are frustrated with your marriage but still have hope...

In life and in marriage, those that do what they need to do consistently, are those that succeed. Very few people can lose weight and keep it off, for example, by following their diet one day out of 10. Marriages are the same way. Some people, though, only want...

Even though we believe that the Revive Your Marriage Jumpstart Challenge is one of the very best ways to help turn almost any bad marriage situation around, there are some people who aren't a good fit and probably shouldn't join. Are you one of them? If you fit into...

A deep feeling of romantic love is necessary for most folks to feel fulfilled in their marriage. If that love is there, almost any obstacle can be overcome together. If not, this may be a sign of trouble ahead. Love needs to be expressed by actions (what you do) and...

The transition from the happy, full of hope “I Do’s” to the dreaded “I want a divorce” is an interesting one. How can a couple that was seemingly so in love start to hate each other? What causes this to happen and is there anything that can be done to stop it? This...

Many years ago, when driving across the country, I saw a message on a church sign in Mobile, Alabama that has become one of my favorites. It said: Do the best you can with what you have where you’re at. Life is hard. Marriage is hard. Sometimes, there seems to be an...

Not long ago, a woman told me that she didn’t appreciate the tone her son used when speaking to her. She felt like he was disrespectful and rude. Her son is an adult so he’s old enough to know better. Even though every person is responsible for their own behavior and...

Stress is one of the biggest dampers of sex drive and desire. When we are all worked up by a hard week on the job or we’ve barely survived a week at home with the kids, sometimes sex is the last thing on our mind., even though sex can help us control our stress....

Are you guilty of committing any of the 4 C’s? The irony of all ironies is that we hurt worst the very people we claim to love most. If you want your marriage to survive and thrive you need to make sure you aren’t guilty of any of these love and marriage killers....