Before you got married, you were Mr. or Mrs. Right “enough”. You were the one your spouse chose to spend their life with. No matter what your spouse’s definition of Mr. or Mrs. Right was, you fit the bill.
Do you still fit their definition of Mr. or Mrs. Right? Are you the one for them? Are you still the one they want to spend the rest of their life with?
If so, keep up the good work.
If not, what do you need to change? Is it your attitude? Your habits? Is it the way you talk to them and others? Is it character flaws? Have you let yourself “go” physically? Do you keep your promises? Are you pulling your own weight? Is it in how you handle money? Are you living the 10 T’s? Are you guilty of any of the 4 C’s?
Whatever your situation, decide today that you will become (or stay) Mr. or Mrs. Right. Doing so is an important, foundational element of having a happy, long-lasting marriage. Let us know if you need help with this.